The 3 Depths Of Submission
Submission isn't automatic — not even when somebody dearly wants to submit or has a partner to who they dearly want to submit to. To a degree, you can only…
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THE ‘ALPHA SUBMISSIVE’ EXPLORED : ‘Alpha Female In The Streets, Sexually Submissive In The Sheets’
These are just my own observations and experiences - if you disagree, so be it. What you are about to read obviously isn't true for everyone, everyone experiences the dynamic…
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: ‘Alpha Female In The Streets, Sexually Submissive In The Sheets’
9 Questions To Ask On Non-Monogamous Dates
Here is a list of questions to ask when dating and relating to non-monogamous people (especially poly people!). This isn’t a list I complied, but, upon reading it I feel…
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Custom BDSM Furniture and Play Equipment
I have recently connected with Ring Dragon to offer custom BDSM Furniture and Play Equipment. Ring Dragon is passionate about the lifestyle and his craft and his equipment will withstand…
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Stonewalling In Kink And Vanilla Relationships
People talk about gas-lighting a lot, and an aspect of gas-lighting came up the other day when I was working with a client. But instead of being gaslighted in the…
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The Self, and overcoming life traps
Do you ever think, "I'm disappointed with myself; I thought I could do that, but I blew it," "I wish I felt better about myself," or "I'm so mad at…
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Unconditional Love vs Conditional Love & How To Do It
PrefaceWriting this article has taken a lot of time and given me a headache. Because its hard to pin down what love is, let alone write about it and there…
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Why We Need To Talk More About Shame & Self Esteem
I sit down to write this as I reflect on a recent therapy session I had on someone recently. There was a moment where she looked into my eyes and…
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Protected: Erotica: ‘You Are Mine’ (Trigger warning – CNC based fantasy)
WARNING: If CNC (Consensual Non Consent) is triggering for you - Click away now.It was an uneasy silence in the car on the way back to the hotel room. An…
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