Ever wanted to know how to ethically and safely dominate your partner and give them experiences most only dream of?

Ever thought about how to become a great Dom, or Dominatrix (professional or otherwise) via training?

Do you have a partner that you want to express your desires with but don’t know how to go about it and/or introduce it to your partner?

Looking for an introduction to the play party scene/lifestyle?

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These are some of the many reasons someone would want to engage in professional sexuality and life/change coaching. With Sir, you will be on the right track to gaining new sexual skills and perspectives in your sexuality, helping you understand yourself better and if needed, uncover what’s holding you from attaining the life experiences you want.

Sure you can learn from a book or blog articles.. but that will never compare to the transformative experience of live coaching based on a holistic framework with Sir Dominic. Take advantage of a free, no-obligation phone call with Sir Dominic to discuss your needs and goals and exploring all the coaching options available. Get informed and then make the decision for yourself

Shane, 32

Thank you Dominic for your coaching! As soon as we finished the coaching I felt ready to explore my sex life with more confidence and the clarity you have in sex, relationships and communication has really changed the way I approach these areas in a positive way. You opened my eyes to the depth and intimacy that is possible with BDSM when you have the right frame of mind and orientation and especially how to connect it with tantra. I never thought I could learn how to wield a flogger with such purpose in such a short time and I can't wait to try out my new skills with some willing participants. Worth every cent! Thanks again.

Together with Sir Dominic, you will define what you are wanting or needing most and explore the solution – possibly one that you may have not even considered yet.

CHOOSE to invest in your own well-being and knowledge. CHOOSE to find assistance or skills to have the life you really want

Sir Dominic offers specialised and unique life/sex coaching & ethical dom training services. These services cover these 2 broad areas and can be experienced individually or can be incorporated into one comprehensive program. They are BDSM/Dom/Dominatrix Training/Coaching (Psychology, Mindsets, Communication, etc, Dynamics and Practical Skills) & Life Coaching (Dating, Self-Actualisation, Confidence, Self-Limiting Beliefs, Assertiveness, Life Purpose & More).

1. BDSM, DOM, & SEXUALITY COACHING & TRAINING:

This is for people who are keen on learning how to incorporate kink into their life. This can be done one-on-one or in a class setting if there is more than one of you. Sir has extensive experience with coaching/training and works with single people, partnered people, or couples (including people of any sexual and gender orientation – straight, gay, or bi, including cd’s, trans and/or other).

All coaching is tailored to your specific needs and goals – whether you want to be Dominant/Domme, Dominatrix, switch, or submissive, you will learn how to live the lifestyle that you wish.

Dominant/Domme Coaching:
Whether you have zero of just a little bit of experience or an experienced player wanting to take your skillset and dominance to the ultimate level, this coaching will help you expand and fine-tune your techniques, explore the expression of your personal style of ethical Domination, and empower you as a confident and skilled lover.

This type of coaching is interactive, experiential, and ultimately, transformative. You will learn by executing and embodying the right frames, attitude, and techniques. If your budget permits, you have the opportunity to practice scenes/techniques (role/play, drills, communication, non-sexual touching only) with an experienced assistant while under the guidance of Sir. This allows you to get real-time feedback and gives you a visceral experience, which has been shown, to dramatically increase the effectiveness of the coaching.

Here is just some of what you will learn from BDSM training with Sir:

* Learn the ins and outs of Dom/Sub types of experiences – how to ethically foster this dynamic 
* Learn the technical side of BDSM – sensual style, authoritarian style, warming up, bondage/restraint, flogging,  spanking, etc, and the different items that are used in BDSM Play.
* How to negotiate consensual play and the use of safewords.
* Learn how to give adequate aftercare.
* Learn how to incorporate the different archetypes of dominance and how you can express your own personal style within them.
* Learn the art of ‘funishment’ and the ins and outs of it 
* Learn proper voice commands, dominant word choice, and how to direct experiences through verbal communication.
* Learn the intricacies of ‘sub-space’ (the psychology of submission).
* Learn how to explore different role-play scenarios and different BDSM related dynamics (Dom/sub, daddy/little girl etc)
* Learn the art of arousal – from denying orgasm to forcing waves of orgasmic pleasure.
* Learn how to give women many different types of orgasms (even squirting!).
* Learn about critical safety practices.
* Secrets to setting up memorable scenes.
* Learn how to ethically and consensually push boundaries.
* Learn how to engage all the senses and create experiences most dream of.
* Learn the art of dominance (anyone can be domineering.. but can you be authentically dominant?)
* Explore and learn how vulnerability, authenticity, and consciously relating add depth and substance to your relationships.
* Learn the ancient practice of tantra, conscious touch and breathe and how to fuse that into your BDSM play.
* Get help in putting together toy kits
* Tantra/Conscious Relating and how to incorporate that into your kinky or non-kinky life.

…and MUCH more!

N.B If you are traveling from interstate or overseas and your coaching consists of more than 1 day, Sir can provide accommodation and no extra cost.

Professional BDSM Practioner and Marketing:
For someone seeking to work as a professional in the industry, Sir offers coaching that covers:
– what is the most popular and requested scenes/activities from your future clients and focusing on the skills training to deliver those in a professional manner
– how to structure your scenes based on the length of the time your client has booked you for
– how to find the best and most compatible clients
– how much to charge and for what
– the best places and ways to advertise
– how to identify warning signs and red flags and be able to quickly screen out time wasters in order to focus your attention on quality clients
– – how to develop your own brand/style and how to communicate this through your website and marketing
– you will receive information on how to set up a website, e-mail account, and payment systems/options. Optional extra: Website development, marketing and seo
– and much much more!

For more details on Sex worker BDSM, Tantra, Sensual Massage Skills/Escort Agency Coaching/Consulting/Marketing Services – Click here 

Brendan C

Hey Dom, I just wanted to give you a massive thanks for all that you taught me. I gave a girl the most powerful and emotional experience over the last 3 days that she's now an entirely different person. She was a woman that had forgotten what it felt like to be a woman, so used to needing to take the masculine role all the time. She had forgotten what it feels like to surrender to the experience. After those days together, she told me its the first time she really felt like a woman in her life. She said and in all her relationships she has had weak men that let her take control. I'm really glad we did the coaching around masculinity and polarity in relationships as you suggested!

2. LIFE COACHING & RAPID CHANGE (Dating, Relationships, Self-Actualisation, Confidence, Self-Limiting Beliefs,  Trauma Clearing/Reframing, Assertiveness, Life Purpose & More):

Sir Dominic has extensive experience in working specifically in the areas of:

* Clearing trauma and associated maladaptive behavioral strategies associated with them. The trauma can be in any form for eg. betrayal, abuse of all kinds, death of a loved one, failure in business, being bullied etc. In essence, a traumatic relationship, event or experience has very negative emotion attached to it which triggers off immediately when we face similar situations in life – hence it is important to overcome that trauma and move on in life with confidence and a renewed sense of self.
* Getting over an ex and/or freeing yourself from unhealthy past relationships (Many clients don’t require more than 1 – 2 sessions as change is usually  very quick and permanent!)
* Dating (Getting over anxiety in speaking with the opposite sex, how to communicate more effectively while dating, escalation etc)
* Relationships (How to structure healthy relationships, long-term attraction & sexuality etc)
* Identifying and breaking unhealthy patterns/self-limiting beliefs (and of course helping them embrace new ones!)
* General Life Coaching (working out your goals and the steps needed to achieve them, motivation, time-management, finding your purpose)
* Performance coaching
* Living an authentic life aligned with your values
* Self-empowerment
* General Anxiety
* Self-confidence
* Self-actualisation
* Understanding what is holding you back or blocking your growth and potential
* Reducing stress
* Grief/Loss
* Body Image Issues/Body Acceptance Issues
* Increasing your sense of general well-being
* Better and healthier relationships/friendships
* Work/life balance and time management
* Working through questions about your sexual identity
* Feeling like something is missing from your life

Sir Dominic is committed to working in whatever way is most suitable for you and uses a variety of techniques including but not limited to: NLP, G.R.O.W, SMART etc.

The training and other services is conducted in Sydney (in-person) or online. If traveling from another city for coaching, all meals and accommodation will be supplied depending on the amount of coaching you will engaging in – Sir will advise this when you speak with him. If your budget permits, you may also arrange for Sir to travel to you.

Contact Sir Dominic through the contact form directly to engage Sir in a free phone call to discuss your needs regarding BDSM Dominatrix Training, Rapid Change Therapy, and Life Coaching.

Start living a life most only dream of. You deserve nothing less.

Trauma Therapy/Rapid Change - Jill, 37

My world was blocked by so much baggage from my horrible past. I had a partner that abused me for many years in every way - physically, mentally but also sexually to the point that I had severe fears of being truly open sexually with any new partner. I started following Sir Dominic on Instagram due to common interests and started to read his blog and chatted to him on a few occasions. I asked him some questions about what he did. He was very helpful and I went through with a therapy session with him and he changed my life in ways that surpassed my expectations - he cleared all the baggage within the one session. It's given me the chance to be totally open sexually with my new partner. The healing and changes I went through are more than just now being able to be sexually open with my partner though, it was also about having a life instead of being locked up inside my home. My life has improved in every way and I can not thank Sir Dominic enough for what he did. I strongly encourage anyone that reads this who needs help in any way, to get in contact with him. He was able to help me the way my psychologists couldn’t - but I desperately wanted.