BDSM Dominants: The Many Types Explained
The 16 Types Of BDSM Dominants Explained In BDSM, a Dominant—Dom for men, Domme for women—takes the lead in a consensual power exchange. It’s not about throwing weight around -…
Dominance and Confidence In and Out of The Bedroom
Understanding Dominance and Confidence In today’s fast-paced world, dominance and confidence are often misunderstood. Many believe these traits are about overpowering others, but true confidence and dominance are rooted in…
Bratty Submissives (Brats) – Debunking the Myths and Misconceptions
The misunderstandings about brats in BDSM are widespread. Some people believe that brats require further training, are simply toying with submission, or do not have a place in BDSM. These…
Punishment and Funishment – The Differences, Uses & Considerations + Fun Ideas
Punishment and funishment are two approaches to discipline that are often used by Dominants to consensually shape the behaviour of submissives and their play partners. While both methods seek to…
The Sensory World of BDSM: Using Touch, Sound, and Sight to Enhance Pleasure
Let's explore the ways in which touch, sound, and sight can be used to enhance pleasure and intimacy in BDSM play. Sensation play is an important aspect of BDSM, as…
How To Become A Professional Dominatrix/Pro Domme
If you're considering a career as a Dominatrix - kudos to you! It's a dynamic career and 'beats' the mundane 9 to 5 (pun intended - I couldn't resist). Being…
Submission is empowering
Submission, especially in a sexual context, is often seen as a taboo or even shameful act. But in reality, sexual submission can be a deeply empowering and fulfilling experience for…
Sexual Pleasure Mapping
Sex is physical, emotional and at times, a spiritual experience. But, what underpins it all is communication and there is one question you can ask during sex that can lead…
The 3 Depths Of Submission
Submission isn't automatic — not even when somebody dearly wants to submit or has a partner to who they dearly want to submit to. To a degree, you can only…
THE ‘ALPHA SUBMISSIVE’ EXPLORED : ‘Alpha Female In The Streets, Sexually Submissive In The Sheets’
These are just my own observations and experiences - if you disagree, so be it. What you are about to read obviously isn't true for everyone, everyone experiences the dynamic…