Trauma/Rapid Change Therapy – Jill, 37
'My world was blocked by so much baggage from my horrible past. I had a partner that abused me for many years in every way - physically, mentally but also…
8 Ways to Make Desire Last in a Long-Term Relationship
Spicing up a sex life is one of the main reasons why many couples come to see me for coaching and its not surprising because when you really look at…
Added a new Gallery section to my website
Check it out! More pictures coming all the time. Click here.If you are an exhibitionist and/or photographer and want your pictures (professional or otherwise) featured on my site - Contact…
Humiliation and Degradation: Playing on The Edge
When you think of edge play what pops into your head? Breath Play? Blood? Fire? Knives? I bet many people who are asked this would have answered humiliation or degradation.…
The Importance Of Personal Philosophies And Going Your Own Way
“Enlightenment is a destructive process. It has nothing to do with becoming better or being happier. Enlightenment is the crumbling away of untruth. It's seeing through the facade of pretense.…
SUBSPACE – The Often Elusive And Hard To Define Experience + Ways To Get ‘There’ (BDSM)
When you ask various submissive what subspace is, it's likely you will get different answers. And that's because subspace is truly an individual experience and quite hard to define. One…
Self-Sacrifice is not healthy submission + how to recognise it
You will come across the idea that to be a good submissive, you need to ‘obey your Dominant’ and ‘true’ submission is putting your wants and desires after those of…
Kinky desires do not automatically result from psychopathology and 6 science-backed benefits of consensual BDSM.
It has been generally thought that the practice of bondage-discipline, dominance-submission, sadism-masochism (BDSM) is in some form associated with psychopathology. I'm sick to death of hearing the opinion from un-educated…
The Pathway To ‘Magic’ – The Space Between Soft & Hard Limits
As I sit down to write this post, I'm finding it hard to put words to express what my experience of ‘magic’ is — that special something that the submissive…
The Differences Between Surrender and Submission and How to ‘Let Go’
The simple intention to surrender control is all you need to experience miracles. - Gabrielle Bernstein When we direct ourselves with intent, give ourselves over to something or someone, and…