People talk about gas-lighting a lot, and an aspect of gas-lighting came up the other day when I was working with a client. But instead of being gaslighted in the…
I sit down to write this as I reflect on a recent therapy session I had on someone recently. There was a moment where she looked into my eyes and…
‘I want to be a good submissive for my Dom/Domme - how do I become a good submissive?’ is a question I get asked from time to time. My initial…
How can I find a real Dom/Domme?” is one of the most common questions I get asked. If I had a dollar for every time I've been asked I would…
Being a dominant comes with a lot of responsibility and there is a lot to work out and process of creating and maintaining a healthy and fun dom/sub relationship dynamics.…
Let's explore BDSM Archetypes as published on bdsmtest.org Everyone is different, and finding two kinksters with the exact same preferences is probably impossible. There are however a few common 'archetypes'…
Interview by Adultsmart.com.au - One of Australia's greatest online sex toy shops! Sir Dominic is a BDSM Dominant At Temple 22, with over 15 years of private and professional experience, he is…
Recently there have been a number of first-timers contacting me for sessions (something which I love to facilitate by the way!) so I thought I would write up something that…
Visiting a professional establishment is a lot more dignified, let alone safer, than seeing someone you meet off the internet. This is mainly due to the legalisation of establishments in…
Some great BDSM movies to get you into the mood for some kinky play.. Secretary (2002) The Night Porter (1974) Maitresse (1975) 9 1/2 Weeks (1986) 9 1/2 Weeks…