People talk about gas-lighting a lot, and an aspect of gas-lighting came up the other day when I was working with a client. But instead of being gaslighted in the…
I sit down to write this as I reflect on a recent therapy session I had on someone recently. There was a moment where she looked into my eyes and…
‘I want to be a good submissive for my Dom/Domme - how do I become a good submissive?’ is a question I get asked from time to time. My initial…
How can I find a real Dom/Domme?” is one of the most common questions I get asked. If I had a dollar for every time I've been asked I would…
Being a dominant comes with a lot of responsibility and there is a lot to work out and process of creating and maintaining a healthy and fun dom/sub relationship dynamics.…
Let's explore BDSM Archetypes as published on bdsmtest.org Everyone is different, and finding two kinksters with the exact same preferences is probably impossible. There are however a few common 'archetypes'…
Recently there have been a number of first-timers contacting me for sessions (something which I love to facilitate by the way!) so I thought I would write up something that…
Some great BDSM movies to get you into the mood for some kinky play.. Secretary (2002) The Night Porter (1974) Maitresse (1975) 9 1/2 Weeks (1986) 9 1/2 Weeks…
So.. why are we here? Its a big question.. asked by everyone at some point or another in our life. You can come to your own conclusions.. but for me..…
One of the greatest things a Sir can do for his sub is to silence her mind - to allow her to get of the world, its worries and simply 'be'.…