Sir offers a wide range of specialised sex worker coaching and consulting services for the sex industry, including but not limited to: BDSM, TANTRA, SENSUAL MASSAGE, and COMMUNICATIONS/MARKETING.

Here is a brief summary of what is on offer. Feel free to contact Sir to discuss your needs in detail.

BDSM/KINK

  • theory
  • communication/negotiation (how to ensure you are prepared for the session and the client gets the most out of their time wih you)
  • skills/practical (bondage, impact/spanking/flogging/riding crops etc, the
    psychology of, commands/word choice, voice tonality, body posture and
    positioning)
  • role play and fantasy
  • in-depth exploration of all different types of kink equipment and how to use them in a safe and effective manner
  • in-depth understanding and associated practical for the different archetypes/dominant character roles
  • aftercare
  • ‘funishment’ (how to create interesting scenarios and predicaments for the client)
  • how to layer different aspects to immerse the client in the experience
  • control (in-depth exploration of control as a concept)
  • safe words
  • health & safety considerations (especially how to pull someone out if they are triggered into an anxiety/panic attack)
  • and much more

    SENSUAL MASSAGE
  • How to set the scene of a seductive massage so that the woman is already
    relaxed and open to being touched
  • The “Lover’s Touch”- the exercise to give your staff a sensual and seductive attitude that lets you become more intimate with her body. When they use this exercise, the clients will literally start to feel the spark of physical connection through touch.
  • Tantric secrets of “Elemental Touches” that allow you to trigger different reactions and emotions in the client you’re touching.
  • • The positions to use when you’re on a bed with the client to deliver effective and arousing massage.
  • How to escalate from casually clothed strokes into more intimate positions to start simmering the sensual tension between the service provider and the client
  • How to start from a fully clothed massage and quickly transition into skin-to-skin
  • 3 key techniques to effective massage: effleurage, kneading and pressure.
  • How to apply the 3 techniques in sexy and fun ways to have the client anticipating your touch
  • How to transition from a simple massage into a tantric massage position to start pumping up the sensuality of the massage
  • Massaging arms, hands, legs, and feet
  • Facial Massage
  • Putting it all together

    TANTRA
  • Tantric massage (Penis massage, Vagina Massage)
  • Tantra Fundamentals (eye gazing, conscious touch, art of giving and receiving, connecting energy)
  • Remove barriers between the client and service provider so they can and
    experience transformation within and open-hearted sexual encounter
  • a way to move past only using friction-based sex to connect, a way of getting both the client and service provider out of their heads and into the present full body reality

    PERFORMANCE COACHING/GENERAL WELL BEING/MORALE
    BUILDING/THERAPY/CHANGE WORK

  • modeling top escorts and creating a coaching program to boost the quality and the professionalism of your staff
  • address specific areas that have been identified either by staff or management as barriers to the effectiveness of your services
  • therapy/change work to clean up the emotional, psychological and
    neurophysiological health of your staff – this aims to ensure that the staff are in peak ‘health’, thus minimising issues that could affect their ability and quality of their work
  • general morale building

    COMMUNICATIONS/MARKETING/THEMEING
  • themeing web pages/communication in the ‘storybrand’ framework to maximise the communication and marketing of these services within the sex work marketing and advertising channels
  • web design/development
  • graphic design
  • branding
  • photoshoots/video production

    Feel free to contact Sir to discuss your sex worker coaching and escort agency coaching/training needs in detail.